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It's something which seems to be a long-standing tradition amongst first-timers -- exaggerating either/both the pain and the pleasure to try a and live up to what the experience is supposed to be, give it the gravity we're sure it requires, because if it doesn't have that gravity as-is, we're convinced that's because we did something wrong, not that it may be merely overrated or made into a something larger than it is. James and I weren't that disappointed -- I don't think either of us a really had any major expectations, and we knew the propaganda about intercourse was likely at least a little melodramatic. It wasn't the stuff of which drama was made: there were no pregnancy or STD scares, no big highs or lows, no major physical blunders -- but then, having no previous intercourse, we'd not have known if there had been any. Looking back more than half a lifetime to that scenario, I'm glad I had a partner who could be as down-to-earth about the whole thing as I was; who wasn't insecure or afraid to agree that really, first-time intercourse wasn't the Big Deal we'd been led to believe it was.
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