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| blow jobs., family & relationships, pee, youngsex, the camera my mother gave me, biography:gays: gal: interview: photography: pornography ace: peter berlin, video, possible, diseases, movie times, in, | Only one thing, Mark: sending a guy like me some black tits videotape. So if some bears are into skinny guys, WITD, how come you've been made to feel black tits unwelcome at bear venues? Because bear culture-a phrase I'm using under duress-has shown itself to be just as susceptible to the body-image fascism that its earliest adherents claimed to be rebelling against. Bear culture quickly moved from rejecting the notion that there should be one standard of gay male beauty-hairless, flat-tummied twinks-to enforcing black tits its own monolithic standard of gay male beauty-fat-bellied, hair-covered bears. At best, the bears who go out of their way to make you feel unwelcome are mildly hypocritical; at worst, they're so insecure that they feel threatened by your skinny, hairless presence. So what do you do? You go to bear bars anyway, WITD, and shrug off whatever grief you get. Then you remind yourself that until bear bars came along, the big hairy guys you like got tons of grief from the twink crowd that dominates most gay bars. |
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| But not every gay man can be the type he finds attractive, WITD. No matter how hard family & relationships they work out, some guys can't put on muscle; some guys are too angelic to pull off punk; and some wannabe bears can't keep the weight on family & relationships or family & relationships are cursed with naturally hairless backs. Lucky for these guys, WITD, not all gay men are attracted to their body doubles. A lot of guys are into their polar opposites: Some muscular guys are into heavy guys; some punk fags dig corporate types; and some bears live to maul twinks. On my recent book tour I met one of these guys: Mark, a skinny, tattooed punk-rocker type. He's been with William, a clean-cut corporate-lawyer type, for four years. Opposites attracted, but at the beginning Mark's punk friends gave him grief about his being with a clean-cut guy like William. "What could be more punk," Mark told his friends, "than a guy like me making a guy like him lick my come up off the floor?" |
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