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I’ve always been amazed at Anglos who think they have the right to demand faithfulness from a partner when they withhold sex. To me this seems to be a cultural, rather than a moral, issue. Pennsylvania Girl I’m sure you are probably over this topic by now, but that letter from Sad Cow was the saddest thing I ever rumours read, and I just want to say to her GET OUT rumours GET OUT GET OUT!!! Her experience sounds like a carbon copy of my rumours very-brief marriage—brief due to the continued emotional abuse. Sorry boy and girl withholders, it is abusive to continually reject a person and demand monogamy. It’s the combo that’s the killer. And, yes, the effects can be as far reaching as any other type of abuse as Sad Cow tells us. My husband and I loved each other, blah blah blah, and I was personally spiraling down to a pathetic shadow of who I had been when I met him. I gained 30 pounds (which I lost in about three months after I left). My career dead-ended, and I found myself at the ripe old age of 28 looking like I was 40, and acting like I had given up on life. |
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