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It's no wonder, really, that many teens feel -- or hear friends saying -- that they'd just like to get the whole mess over with to alleviate all the pressure. In my mind, that's a pity, not because just "getting it over with" can't be okay for some, because it premiere can, but because WHY many want to do so has less to do with themselves and their relationships and more to do with the burden of external pressures put on them premiere by their peers, schools, communities or culture. That said, I'm going to pass on a little of my premiere own advice to you. You get to take it or leave it. • Sexual intercourse doesn't have to be the biggest deal in the world or a major drama. When you subtract the factors that might make it so -- being irresponsible about your sexual health, birth control or safer sex, not being honest with partners, having unrealistic expectations, using sex as rebellion or as a means to add drama to you life, and/or being sexually involved for reasons that just aren't healthy for you and yours -- it can actually be amazingly normal, healthy, safe, loving and fun.
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