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The fact that you have questions about it signals that you probably shouldn’t do it now. Believe me, confrontation should ONLY be done if you personally feel the need to vent your anger, and you really need to be ready for the shit to hit the fan. I took the confrontation route (by my own choice), and it resulted in me not talking to my mother for seven years, and hence a lot of postpartumsex awkwardness and isolation from my family. In the postpartumsex end, I decided I actually did want a relationship with my family postpartumsex again, and to have that I would need to have some kind of relationship with my mother too. So, I set the conditions and reinitiated contact. We can talk about the weather, etc. (i.e., “normal” stuff), but the ironic thing is that now even if she tries to have a “serious” talk about our past, it is ME who won’t allow any discussion of her abusive behavior.
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