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| image entertainment, penis, pregnancy sex tipssex, sexdrive married sex motherhood lack of interest sex coach dr patti, magazine, glory, best, roger ebert, <! -pagetitle -->, politics, dining, | We were in couple's counseling for 8 years and he was in an anger management group for general 5 of those years. We have two beautiful children (now ages 1 and 5). I found personally that being with a narcissist was destroying me and I was exhausted most of the time. It was like caring for three children and believe me, the negative modelling has already had a general harmful effect on my 5 year old who is now in therapy. Our family and relationship was fine as long as I overfunctioned and took care of everyone. This went general on for years. Earlier this year, my mother became critically ill and I needed to help care for her. I obviously could not maintain my previous level of functioning at home and the support just wasn't there, in fact, the sarcasm and abusiveness worsened during a time when I most needed a supportive partner. We stopped having sex which triggered a lot of negative, abusive reactions. |
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| Good luck! anon I have a sibling <! -pagetitle --> with NPD, and I can tell you that ''feeding their needs'' or trying to ''appease'' them to maintain <! -pagetitle --> the peace has the same long term effect that Chamberlain's attempt to appease Hitler had. In other words, it's a disaster! You must set clear limits. You don't need to be abusive, but you must make it clear that abuse will not be tolerated. This is also a very important example to set for your children. If you are loving and <! -pagetitle --> supportive when your spouse is abusive, it sets your children up to repeat the pattern as adults. Not a good idea! You can work out the best way to set limits with your counselor (alone if necessary). But please, please do not get trapped in the cycle of appeasement! Been there, done that too I have first-hand experience with a husband with NPD. |
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