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Some people feel dominant or submissive deep down in their kinky souls, and they build their lives around those non monogamy roles. I get it. And, dare I say it, some of my best friends are 24-7 BDSMers. But BDSM isn't ultimately who you are, it's what you enjoy in bed—or in the dungeon, the playroom, the fetish club, etc. non monogamy Here's a rough rule of thumb: If you're talking about something that gay, straight, and bisexual people can all do— fisting, snowballing, BDSM—then it's a sex act, not a sexual identity. However many times you collar your slave, however many slave contracts he signs, however many nights he sleeps in a cage, it's still a sex act, and forcing your family to watch you treat him like your slave compels them to participate in your sex life. And again, that's not OK. Sensible BDSMers—and, yes, I include 24-7 BDSMers in that group—keep the heavy stuff behind closed doors and keep it subtle when they're out in public or with their families.
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