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abusive, contraception, bi, 1884444318, authors, american, baby, delta, society, holocaust, bookstore, sex group, family relationships, music previews, sex, newcity daily columns, pregnancy sex advice, real estate, transvestite, vibrator, premiere, riviera, latest, | Being abused by her mother does not make a survivor a lesbian. Even if the survivor's body physiologically responded to the sexual stimulation, this has nothing to do with sexuality. It is the body's natural physiological response to stimulation, and has nothing to do with the survivor's own sexual desires, or even consent. Sexual abuse effects union a survivor's comfort level with and responses to being union a sexual union person, but it does not cause her sexuality. Identifying With Mother Perpetrators Even when survivors acknowledge that they were sexually abused by their mothers, they often strongly identify with their mothers. |
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They may be afraid of being perceived as lesbian, or afraid that the abuse makes them lesbian. Survivors who are lesbian may fear abusive that their sexuality was caused by the abuse. It is also difficult for survivors to acknowledge their abuse because there are very few places that survivors can hear abusive or read about mother-daughter incest, or even about female perpetrators. Sexual abuse and incest have abusive become almost synonymous with male sexual abuse of females and father-daughter incest. It is within this vacuum that survivors of mother-daughter incest struggle to make sense of and understand their experience. Homphobic Beliefs - One Effect of The Abuse Many people confuse same-sex sexual abuse with lesbian sex, thinking that the perpetrator and even the victim is lesbian, or was made lesbian by the abuse. None of this is true. Yet these myths continue to exist, and they confuse and haunt many survivors who live in fear and shame that they really are lesbian when they aren't, or that their lesbian sexuality was caused by the abuse. |
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